Your happy self has always been there, inside you, learn to wake them up!!!!!!
Finding ththings that make you unconditionally happy is hard it is hard and nobody will let me lie but.
But.
Once you have found them, and you can fit them in a routine, in a secret ritual ft hat you alone created t o invoke your own happiness everything will be better
Because it will happen iand the stuff can be just ate something or sit on q place or feel a really furry rug it can be anything and it will be yours It will be how you become. You transform. Call. Your happy self..
ple ase let yourself be proud of small things. pleas e do that. please allow yoursel f to get really excited about playing a video game well or sending an ask you were nervous about or letting a bug outside or peeling the whole orange in one try. Pleas e get so excited about that. please. tha ts so cool im so glad you did it
Some people apologize all the time, for everything. This can be very annoying.
Here’s a conversation:
- Mary: I like ice cream. I don’t want to order a slice of cake. I’m sorry.
- Darlene: Dude, you don’t have to apologize!
- Mary: Argh, I’m sorry about that.
- Darlene: ::headdesk:::
Telling someone off for that kind of thing doesn’t help. People who do this do it for a reason; they’ve often been taught that they always have to want what other people want. They’ve been taught that it’s rude to ever express a desire. This is not something you can fix by getting annoyed.
In fact, you can’t fix it at all, because you can’t actually fix other people in any case. But getting annoyed makes the problem worse. So does telling someone off for apologizing. Some people need to apologize and adopt a deferential tone in order to feel ok about expressing preferences and boundaries. If you put pressure on people not to apologize, it makes it harder for them to tell you what they want. Don’t take it personally, and don’t take it out on them. It’s not your fault, and it’s not their fault either.
There are things that you can say that sometimes help other people to feel more comfortable expressing desires, if you can say them in a non-annoyed tone of voice:
- “That’s not a problem.”
- “That’s fine.”
- “You didn’t do anything wrong.”
I can’t even express how much that’s preferable than being told not to apologize.
This is actually really nice and helpful especially since people get on my case all the fucking time about my overapologizing, which just makes me feel worse. I’ve tried to break the habit but it’s become so ingrained in my psyche, that guilt I feel when I don’t apologize when I would normally just doesn’t go away to the point where I don’t want to say anything to anyone. And no one has ever told me that it’s an okay thing to feel. Thank you, Tumblr.
1. Every hour you spend doing Thing right now is an extra hour you will get to sleep. (◡‿◡✿)
2. Every hour you spend doing Thing right now is an extra hour you will get to read or talk with friends or watch that new episode of your favourite TV show or do something else you really love doing. ヽ(‘ ∇‘ )ノ
3. You will have to do Thing eventually whether you like it or not! Face Thing head-on and get it over with. You will look back and say to yourself, wow, I am so glad I did Thing three hours ago. ∩( ・ω・)∩
4. You will spend the same amount of time doing Thing whether you do Thing now or at 4am. You might as well get Thing done earlier! ≧(´▽｀)≦
5. Every time you do not do Thing or do Thing really late when you’re tired and cranky and stressed out you feel like crap about yourself. If you do Thing now, you can avoid that stress and crankiness. Future you will be happy! °˖✧◝(⁰▿⁰)◜✧˖°
6. It is midnight in a scary house and all of a sudden you see Thing! It is huge and scary and it has lots of teeth and you want to run away and hide. But then Thing meows and you realize that Thing was just a little kitty cat and you were seeing its shadow reflected on the wall. You should not dread doing Thing because your mind has made it seem a lot bigger and scarier than it actually is. Once you start working on Thing, you will realize how silly it is to make huge scary monsters out of kitty cats! ヽ(‘ ∇‘ )ノ
7. Do not curl up into a ball and think about how horrible you are for not getting Thing done earlier! You are not alone. We all do it! We all procrastinate and avoid doing Thing. It is alright. For now, try to numb yourself and just focus on doing Thing. It will be okay. (*´・ｖ・)
8. Stop every half hour and remind yourself of all the reasons why you should not procrastinate and do Thing earlier. I promise you that you will be able to gather the courage to do Thing. Good luck! (´ω｀★)
motivation things from night vale radio
everything will be okay
…Okay, fine, I GUESS I AM GETTING INTO NIGHT VALE NOW.
(Source: gangularis)
Here’s a serious advice. Even the nicest people have their limits. Don’t try to reach that point because the nicest people are also the scariest assholes when they’ve had enough.
I have watched poyopoyo at least 5 times the whole anime, 5 times the whole 52 episodes and i dont get tired i love it i loveit and if you ever feel bad just even a bit i invite you to watch it and to sing the op song too and just enjoy a really round cat doing. silly things it will bright your day im sure
Published on Jul 6, 2013
Don’t be scared and don’t be frightened. You are amazing and I love you.
if this isn’t inspirational idk what is
(Source: visualarium.com)
